OU Giving Day 2017 was a huge success. All around campus, faculty, staff and students alike were willing to donate anywhere from $5 to even thousands of dollars. If students didn’t have the money to donate, they were quick to write ‘thank you’ letters to faculty, staff and contributors that have helped fund their own college scholarships.
As a college student, I understand the financial stress most people my age are under, and I was very impressed at how many people were willing to help others even when they didn’t have a lot. I think it is a true testiment to what the OU family truly is and what it means to be a Sooner.
Almost every single college at the University of Oklahoma raised their goal amount, including the International Studies department. I am overwhelmed and pleasantly surprised by the generosity of the people at OU.
I will definitely be participating in OU Giving Day 2018.
My classes this semester were awesome. I had some of my favorite professors, i’ve written papers on some of my favorite topics, and i’ve spent quality time with my best friends. I’m incredibly happy with my choice of majors and if you’re considering pursuing a degree in International Studies I highly recommend it! Here’s a brief overview of the classes I took this semester.
Survey of French Literature Since 1800
FR4163 — Dr. Logan Whalen
This course treated french-language texts from French authors from 1768 to 2005. I am extremely happy that I took this course. Dr. Whalen was very personable and the course expectations were clearly outlined from day 1. Some of the texts were rather long; however, the readings were generally spaced out and it was always very manageable. My favorite texts from the class were Rene (Chateaubriand) and Magnus (Sylvie Germain).
Arabic Literature and Culture
MLLL-3413 — Dr. Waleed Mahdi
This class used film and literature to gain a sampling of popular themes discussed in media from the Arab world. I’m not a fan of movies so I thought the course was a little movie-heavy for my taste. One book, The Journey of Ibn Fattouma, was particularly fun to read.
US-Arab Cultural Encounters
IAS-3783 — Dr. Waleed Mahdi
The readings for this class were mainly focused on presenting the main theories one comes across when studying the Middle East (Orientalism, Occidentalism, post-Orientalism, Class of Civilizations, etc). I found this ideological overview to be helpful in my other classes.
** I wrote a combined final paper for both of Dr. Mahdi’s classes comparing Kanye West and Shaaban Abd Al-Rahim and their representation of marginalized communities
ARAB-3223 — Dr. Hossam Barakat
The vocab we learned in this class has already proved to be useful. I think this class gave me a great base to work with when I take Media and Politics next semester. I appreciated the mix of grammar, culture, and vocabulary.
HON-3993 — Dr. Joshua Landis
Another wonderfully informative class from Dr. Landis. I am never disappointed with his courses. The assigned readings are perfect for gaining insight into the political landscape of the Middle East. I wrote 3 papers for this class: a paper on the Egyptian Revolution, a paper on ISIS and Syria, and a paper on US-Saudi relations. Overall, I would highly recommend this course to IS students who are interested in geopolitics, the Middle East, and International Relations.
Over winter break I traveled to Cairo, Egypt where I spent a month with Lamis and her family. I had an amazing time, learned a lot of Arabic, saw some crazy stuff, and returned with a lot of stories! Here are some observations I made while in Egypt.
I’ve taken all forms of transportation available in Cairo.
Train- pretty cool. average train ride. my ticket from Cairo to Alexandria and back was 90 Egp.
Bus- no. never again.
Minibus- so so so crowded. also scary.
Microbus- super cheap and generally pretty trustworthy. Most tickets were 4 Egp.
TukTuk- So much fun! They’re usually decorated with feathers, lights, or stickers. The only downside is how slow they are.
Boxtruck- Yikes. Crammed with people, nails sticking out of the sides, guys hanging on the back, and a very bumpy ride.
Taxi- some drivers have timers that determine the fare. These drivers are suuuuper slow. Downside of taxi is that sometimes the drivers try to be funny.
There are no rules for driving. At all.
Cars will try to run you over. Especially female drivers.
Crosswalks either don’t exist or they’re not visible. Crossing the street basically just means jumping in front of cars and looking mean enough to hopefully make them stop for you.
Sidewalks are where stores conduct business, the street is shared by pedestrians and cars.
Traffic lights and stop signs are suggestions.
Animal-drawn carts aren’t the weirdest thing. If you leave the house you’re most likely going to see at least one donkey pulling an orange cart
While in Egypt i ate pigeon, rabbit, quail, beef, chicken, fish, shrimp, ful, t3mayya, kufta, koshary, mulukhayya, and just about every other thing you could think of. The food was always so good. I was fortunate enough to have an excellent host mother (my friend’s mom) who was continuously cooking for us.
Nescafé is love. Nescafé is life.
Guests are served coffee, tea, juice, or Nescafé made to their specifications on a silver tray.
Every meal must have side dishes. Grape leaves, stuffed vegetables, other meats.
Black tea usually follows a meal.
There are endless types of cheeses and everyone has a different favorite. *Cue weird looks if you eat the wrong cheese with the wrong meat.*
You can get a sandwich for 2 Egp (shoutout to Shabrawwi) that tastes amazing.
Falafel is called T3mayya is Cairo. Just go with it.
Abu Tarek has the best koshary and that’s final.
Lemonade will probably never be the same for me. I drank a lot of Lemonade with mint, 2hwa mazboot (sweetened Turkish coffee), and tea with mint. I also tried fresh mango, strawberry, and guava juice!
There is a song for everything. Everything has a movie or TV show reference, a little chant, a song, or some connection to pop culture.
Key gestures and phrases made my life 1000x easier.
ex: there’s a gesture to show someone you’re actually full and not just being nice.
there’s a phrase to tell the person asking for money that you don’t have any but you hope their life gets easier.
*sidenote* sometimes shopkeepers will tell you that your items are free and you don’t have to pay. they’re just being nice %99 of the time and you really do need to pay
I’m creating a second post dedicated solely to shisha and coffee shops.
The Quran is absolutely EVERYWHERE. This might’ve been the biggest shock for me when I got to Egypt. Almost every car has بسم الله, ما شاء الله, الله اكبر or some other religious phrase written in sharpie, painted, or (the most common) attached as a sticker. Taxis, buses, microbuses, and minibuses are especially decked out in written prayers asking for God’s protection. Quranic recitation is unbelievably prevalent. I heard recordings of the Quran being played in: taxis, microbuses, grocery stores, on the street, shops, etc. I was touring the Citadel in Alexandria and i even heard one of the cleaning men reciting the Quran.
*sidenote* One of the mechanics across the street from Lamis’s house blared the Quran non-stop 24/7 the only exception being during soccer games.
Idle chitchat is mandatory when a guest comes over. I really value alone time so i occasionally struggled to keep up with the Egyptian social life.
People stare. A lot. Some people make weird comments. No one ever touched me or was hostile.
Personal space doesn’t exist outside of the house. There are a ton of people in Cairo and it’s very apparent when there’s a big event or holiday. (like New Year’s Eve)
Foreign brands are everywhere (they have cheetos).
People yell in the streets at all hours of the night. It’s fine. Most people are awake anyway.
Being late is normal. Meeting times are just general suggestions, give or take a couple hours.
Men will invoke the name of God while catcalling you because that makes it fine???
Haggling is a must. Speaking Arabic helps. Being Egyptian helps even more.
The conversion rate during my time in Egypt was about 18-20 Egp/ 1 USD.
Egypt was very affordable for me but worsening economic woes have exacerbated class tensions as purchasing power decreases and prices of basic goods continue to rise.
I gave my dollars to Lamis’s dad to convert for me at the bank. I didn’t mess with conversion companies but I did see some around.
I bought lots of gifts and spent rather freely and i ended up spending ~1100 Egp / Week. (including a train to Alexandria and frequent trips to coffee shops)
I know that generalizations aren’t the best way to obtain a nuanced perspective of a country or a culture; however, the aim of this post is to provide a fun and funny glimpse into Egypt as I saw it.
Dead week and finals week: the two most dreaded and dreadful weeks all semester. Filled with chaos, long nights (thank goodness Gaylord lets me stay until 6 a.m.), early mornings, carpel tunnel and blood shot eyes from looking at the computer screen for too long. These weeks, quite frankly, suck.
They are stressful, exhausting, frustrating, and sad. They also signal the end of a chapter, and the beginning of a new one. Dead and finals week lead to long breaks and frequent naps, and leaving friends for a month to see family.
Mine was exactly that. My dead week began with a 15 page honors paper, huge final video production, a 15 minute television show pitch, and a 10 minute presentation in Spanish. In case you’re wondering, no I did not get any sleep that week. Night after night, I stayed up until the sun was about to rise, surviving on Dr. Pepper, sour patch kids, and the occasional Tapingo meal. Finals week was less stressful, only two long nights – Sunday and Thursday. Three exams, way too many projects, and a ridiculously long paper later, I can breathe.
It’s my birthday. After the most stressful weeks of my life, I get to celebrate life with the ones I love. Soon I get to travel back home to Tulsa to see my dad, and Florida to see my mom and brothers. It’s been a great day, surrounded by hope, kindness, joy and cake. What a wonderful life to live and thrive in.
As I reflect on the last two weeks, it’s exciting to see that I can make it and I can succeed. College doesn’t have anything on this 20 year old. Cheers to this semesters triumphs and failures and being better for them. Cheers to the upcoming semesters and the challenges I’ll face. Cheers to living life to the fullest, making a difference, and being with the ones I love.
See you next semester,
Have you ever felt connected to a place you’ve never visited before? Have you ever felt called to go somewhere, but you don’t fully understand why?
Spain is my place. The culture, the music, the people, the food, the cities, the country – it calls to me. There’s a tug on my heart, something pulling me toward this country. I sometimes feel like I’m wrong living here in Oklahoma, even in the United States. I need to be in Spain. And no, I haven’t ever been before.
I can’t explain this feeling. I don’t understand it. I don’t know why its there or how to answer other peoples questions about it. —– “I understand why you want to study abroad, but why Spain?” —– “What’s so special about Spain?” —–“Can’t you get the same experience traveling the US instead?”
…Yes! No! I don’t know! I just need to be there….
I have this feeling that as soon as I get there, everything will click. I’ll know. It’ll finally make sense why I’ve had a relentless tug in my chest toward this country as soon as I get there. Man, I can’t wait.
I’ll wait restlessly with hopes that this tug won’t let up until I’m home. Spain, I’ll be there soon.
Near the beginning of this semester, I met with a study abroad advisor to talk about different study abroad options for this summer. I am working toward a Spanish minor, and I hoped to finish off that while I was studying abroad. My advisor directed me toward a few different places – Mexico, Peru, and Spain.
While all three places offer great programs at a mostly affordable rate, up until a few days ago, I really struggled to decide which one would be the most beneficial.
- PUEBLA, MEXICO – Gaylord College of Journalism actually offers a program in Puebla, Mexico for 3 weeks. It includes a few excursions, 6 credit hours, and pretty cheap airfare. The program would provide only one elective course for me though, because the other course offered is SPAN 2113, which I’ve long past taken. Also, it was a little too short for my preference, I would like to be abroad for at least a month in the summer. Puebla was the first to get crossed off on my list.
- LIMA, PERU – This program is 4 weeks long, with 6 credit hours that I could direct toward my Spanish minor or my International Studies minor. Like most summer programs, Lima offers housing in hotels or host families. I prefer to immerse myself, so I would choose a host family. A downside to this program is the cost. The flight cost to Lima, Peru are immense and the program fees for this program are very high for a 4 week program. Ultimately, that is why Lima got crossed of my list this week.
- ALCALA, SPAIN – Alcala, Spain is about 40 minutes from Madrid. The summer program is 4 weeks long in either June or July, and I would transfer 6 credit hours. This program has classes that could meet my journalism major elective credits or it could complete my Spanish minor electives. It’s location will allow for many adventures in Spain and in surrounding countries. Though it is the most affordable summer program, the flight cost will definitely be more expensive then the other two aforementioned programs.
I’m thrilled to say I chose Alcala, Spain and I am finishing up my application this week! I can’t wait for this summer’s adventures.
I’m living in an on-campus apartment with my childhood friend Jillian, Lamis, and a girl named Celeste. Before this semester began I was told by a lot of people that living with my best friend was a horrible idea.
I’m took Political Islam, History of the Middle East Since WWI, Youth in Iran, and Macroeconomics with Lamis. She’s also the TA for my Advanced Arabic class. I’d heard stories of people living with their friends and how spending too much time together could be detrimental to a friendship. I’m lucky that for us this wasn’t the case.
Take time for yourself
Lamis and I have developed the ability to understand when we need space. We each take time in the morning and at night to sit in our rooms and watch Netflix or eat by ourselves. Having other friends is also important. It’s nice to be able to spend time with other friends without and jealousy.
DO NOT COMPARE
Taking almost every class together made it really easy to compare ourselves to one another; however, we both decided from the very beginning that this wouldn’t help either of us. We each have our own strengths and skills. Instead of competing with each other we’ve used each other as a resource. She proofreads my Arabic essays and I proofread her English essays. We support each other through stressful times and are proud when the other succeeds.
Talk it out
Whenever get annoyed with each other or hurt each others feelings, we give each other some space and then talk it out. I think one of the main things that has helped us maintain our friendship has been constantly talking. We talk all the time about big things, little things, each other, ourselves, and other people. It really helps to have someone listen to your problems, especially when you know the other person isn’t going to try to solve everything.
Egyptian Sha’bi Music
Sha’bi music is a style of popular working-class music which evolved from baladi, an urban folk style originating in the Egyptian countryside, in the second half of the 20th century.
This genre has evolved greatly since legendary artist Ahmed Adaweyah achieved great success in turning Sha’bi music into a powerful genre sought by distribution companies in Egypt. Sha’bi music uses the popular dialect of Arabic to convey incredibly relatable music. The dominant style today is known as “Techno Sha’bi”.
Hassan el Asmar (October 21, 1959-August 7, 2011)
Drawing from early Sha’bi artists such as Ahmed Adaweyah, Hassan el Asmar discusses poignant topics in his songs Ketab Hayeti (The Book of my Life) and Allah Yasemhak ya Zamen (May God Forgive You, Oh Time). Some critics see Asmar as Adaweyah’s natural heir to the throne of Sha’bi music.
Sha’bi Music from Film
Another great example of Sha’bi music appears in the film Al Farah (The Wedding). The Egyptian word for wedding comes from the word in Modern Standard Arabic for happiness. Ironically, the most popular song to emerge from this film describes how the artist no longer recognizes himself and the resulting deep unhappiness he feels. The line “Ana mish ana”or “I am not myself” is hugely popular in Egypt. Despite the criticism Sha’bi music recieves for its utilization of simple language, the messages conveyed in Sha’bi songs often reflect the difficulties the Egyptian people face as a result of political, economic, and social instability.
A more lighthearted Sha’bi song that has received nation-wide fame also comes from a film. The song Helwa Rooh from a film bearing the same name is upbeat and fun. The song describes the beauty of a belly dancer (played in the video by world-renowned Singer Haifa Wehbe) and is often used as a song to which Egyptians belly-dance.
Shabaan Abdelrahim (March 15, 1957-Present)
Born in Cairo, Shaaban Abdelrahim was working as a makwagi (one who irons clothes) earning a low wage. His 2000 breakout song “I Hate Israel” became immensely popular while simultaneously attracting intense criticism. His catchy beats and political lyrics captured the hearts and minds of average Egyptians, catapulting him to fame. He is famous for his flashy clothes and his outlandish antics.
There’s only one word I can use to accurately describe freshman year – overwhelming.
There was…An overwhelming amount of clubs. An overwhelming amount of people. An overwhelming amount of assignments, readings and tests. An overwhelming amount of to-do lists, meetings and appointments.
But also…An overwhelming amount of joy. An overwhelming amount of love. An overwhelming amount of support. An overwhelming amount of friends that become family. An overwhelming amount of challenges conquered.
When I moved in last fall, I never expected to feel so overwhelmed, and overjoyed, by the University of Oklahoma. I finished my freshman year tonight. It was by far the most challenging semester of my life. I took my first real journalism class (referred to as the weed-out Gaylord class), my first Honors College class (which I loved!!!), and my first college science class (does nutrition count?). They were difficult, but I learned so much about myself and what I wanted in each of them.
I fell in love with campus – the South Oval flowers, the lower level of the Biz, and especially the Gaylord balcony. I met the most amazing people on campus – shout out to Nat and Kristen, I love you guys so much. My roomies crushed it in the apartment department – thanks Mal, Brittney and Laura (aka mom).
I can’t express how much I’ve learned in my first year There are so many things I wish I could tell seniors as they start their our college journeys, but I’ll just stick to a few…
- Talk to people. You seriously never know which stranger is going to become your new best friend and confidant. College is REALLY hard. You need people on campus that will love, support and encourage you.
- Stay away from dramatic people. Trust me, the last thing you need during the busiest time of your life is drama. These people are typically toxic and selfish. Instead surround yourself with people who will build you up and that you can build up.
- Go out and do crazy things. (but not too crazy). Don’t bog yourself down in homework, studying and grades 100 percent of the time. Go have fun.
A few ideas: Classic’s Sprittle dates, Campus Corner shopping, movies in Meacham, CAC events, football games. Seriously, the last one is a must.
- Surround yourself with good people … but don’t be afraid to be alone sometimes. It’s really refreshing to just stay in for the night or even two, watching Netflix, reading, relaxing and even sleeping. College is crazy busy; don’t feel obligated to have your schedule full from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to bed. R&R is a MUST.
- Stay in-touch with your relationship with God. Don’t let the busyness of the world detract from the stillness of the Lord.
- Call your parents. Often. You need them more than you think, and they miss you more than you think.
- Take in as many moments as you can. It goes by so fast.
“Sometimes you will think you can’t take it another day. But if you hang in there, one step at a time, you will be able to accomplish more than you ever imagined.” – Taya Kyle
One step down, three to go.
With freshman year in the books, there’s only one more thing to say….